À Table: An Intimate Gathering With Brigette Romanek

When the holiday season calls for a gathering, it’s not just about the food – it’s about the whole experience. Brigette Romanek, the interior designer with a taste for elegant yet relaxed spaces, has crafted a holiday entertaining mini‑series that blends design, flavor, and community. From the first sip of aperitivo to the final bite of chocolate cake, every detail is intentional and thoughtful. Below is a step‑by‑step guide to bring Brigette’s vision into your own home.
Setting the Scene: Table Design & Atmosphere
Brigette’s philosophy is simple: “A low‑key aperitivo that evolves into an intimate dinner, a smaller table where conversation flows easily, and hearty food devoid of pretension but packed with seasonal flavor.” She approaches the table the same way she designs interiors: start with emotion, then layer texture, color, and form. The result is a warm, layered table that feels both sophisticated and welcoming.
The Table Layout & Tableware
- Dining Table: Roly Poly table – $12,698
- Chair: Roly Poly dining chair – $9,038
- Rug: IKEA Svindinge rug – $30
- Cheese Board: Permanent centerpiece for guests to pick at their leisure
- Candle Holder: Antique candle holder – focal point of the table
- Gravy Server: Handmade by Brigette’s daughter, Willow
For the dishware, Brigette loves mismatched dinnerware that adds a sense of cozy conviviality. Her favorites are the Ginori 1735 collection from Italy, which includes:
- Oriente Italian dessert plate – $160
- Oriente Italian dinner plate – $150
- Oriente Italian soup plate – $180
Complementary glassware from Our Place adds a modern touch: knife trio – $109.
Décor Details & Layering
Brigette layers the table with a mix of high‑end and affordable pieces. She starts with emotion, then adds texture, color, and form. A few key touches:
- Sheepskin mats on chairs: Warm, cozy, and tactile.
- Antique candle holder & gravy server: Creates a focal point.
- Lavender sprigs & wild greenery: Adds fragrance and dimension.
- Hand‑written note & napkin rings: Personal touches that whisper “I thought of you.”
The Menu: From Aperitivo to Dessert
Brigette’s menu is designed to be generous yet uncomplicated. It’s a balanced mix of roasted, aromatic, bright, crunchy, and homey dishes that lean into seasonal produce.
Appetizer & Aperitivo
- Winter Citrus Aperitivo: Fresh citrus, herbs, and a splash of sparkling wine.
- Preparation Tip: Make the aperitivo 2 hours ahead so the flavors meld.
Recipe & Preparation Tips
1. Whisk a citrus‑herb vinaigrette. 2. Chill in the fridge. 3. Serve over a small cheese board.
Main Course
- Roasted potatoes & filet: A hearty soup with a large crusty bread.
- Preparation Tip: Roast potatoes in a sheet pan while the soup simmers.
Recipe & Preparation Tips
1. Roast potatoes until golden. 2. Simmer soup with herbs. 3. Serve with a glass of cabernet.
Dessert & Drinks Station
- Chocolate cake & ice cream: Sweet finish to the meal.
- Signature cocktail: Citrus‑herb cocktail with a gorgeous garnish.
Cocktail & Wine
Brigette recommends a “Batch‑Friendly” cocktail: Golden Citrus Fizz – a mix of fresh citrus, fresh herbs, and a splash of sparkling wine, garnished with a sprig of lavender. Wine: a smooth cabernet that pairs well with the hearty main.
Guest List & Timeline
Curating the Guest List
Brigette curates her guest list like a living room: varied textures, complementary personalities, and good energy. A balanced mix of storytellers, listeners, creatives, and thinkers creates a lively atmosphere.
Timeline of the Evening
- 6:00 pm – Guest arrival & welcome drinks
- 6:30 pm – Aperitivo served
- 7:15 pm – Main course & wine served
- 8:00 pm – Dessert & cocktail served
- 9:00 pm – Closing toast & community chat
Hosting Tips & Final Touches
Checklist
- Check tableware & décor 1 week before
- Prepare aperitivo 2 hrs ahead
- Keep wine chilled in a cooler
- Set a bar counter for the cocktail station
- Place lavender sprigs & greenery on the table
Final Touches
- Candlelight: Light the antique candle holder and add a soft glow.
- Napkin rings: Add a personal touch with a handwritten note.
- Music: Soft background playlist (Brigette’s favorite: “Winter Hymn” by John Doe).
Closing Thoughts
Brigette’s holiday entertaining mini‑series shows that the best gatherings are built on emotion, texture, and community. By following her guide, you’ll create a warm, layered dinner party that feels both sophisticated and inviting. The key is to stay organized, stay relaxed, and most importantly, enjoy every moment.
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